Break up's hurt period!!!. . Now, you have to decide how you want to inflict this pain on her. . . 1. Fast and quick. This is the get it over with and accept the loss of love and friendship. It's kinda like when you pull a band-aid off real quick ... ouch. (THis is the way I prefer men to break-up with me). Beware, she may stike back. If this happens, you must stick to your principals and keep insulting her until she gets it (FYI, she's a stalker!!!) otherwise, you're a prissy female dog and she owns you.. . 2. Slow and easy. This is where you slowly start to drop hints of your dis-satisfaction ... pull away from her slowly, and encourage her to find other people and activities to fill the void you're leaving. This is desired when you still want friends and you have tons of compassion. However, if you're too compationate, then you're a putty-tat, & she owns you.. . 3. Move away ... run ... just give up everything you have and relocate to avoid the dicomfort. 90% of us say that long distance relationships are killers, so this is why you relocate.. . Ok, there's so many more ways, but these are the top three. Good luck buddy.