This is not a nice answer but it is the truth as I know it from my own exprnce with living in diff areas.. . Black females bounce off each other easier because black men sleep around more thus the females are more wheary of what is happening with their guy and who he is sleeping with and who they should be jealous of, who they ought to be, or could be, or would be etc.. . But in the end, guys get to sleep around because silly girls let them. So no fingers should be pointed at the men only.