Online archive of questions on various topics answered by our experts. You can also ask a question (registration is required)
+78 votes
I am unable to reach orgasm during sex, can you help me understand why?
by (4.3k points)

6 Answers

+69 votes
 
Best answer
It's been a topic of discussion for many years...most women are just built wrong down there. The clit should have been placed closer to the opening and there are some doctors that have tried surgery to improve on this. A clitoral orgasm is comparable to a man's ejaculation and if you've never had one, you're really missing out. Vaginal orgasms are milder and more frequent but if you want that 100% one that makes you call for time out, use clitoral stimulation.
by (4.1k points)
selected by
0 votes
Most women need clitoral stimulation to reach orgasm. Maybe you are one of the many. Also, if you cannot have an orgasm infront of a guy you are not comfortable enough to let your self completely let go.
by (4.0k points)
0 votes
They are not hitting the right spot. Guys get in and we like to worry about ourselves. Take control one day and tell the guy to lay back and you go to work. It will take some work on your behalf, but it should deff. get you off. This process works, because you know how you want to feel. Let me know if this works. Dont knock the idea until you try the idea.
by (4.2k points)
0 votes
Try taking charge. I found what works for me is being on top but still let the man put his hands on your butt and pull you toward him that helps too.
by (4.5k points)
0 votes
learn how to spell first
by (4.5k points)
0 votes
Have you tried being on top? Thats the best way a woman can "control" whats happening. Try it!
by (4.4k points)
...