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How do I let my friend know that her boyfriend is inviting me on dates?

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How do I let my friend know that her boyfriend is inviting me on dates?
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I wouldn't tell her, until telling him to stop doing that, because U care about your friend, she is a great person and doesn't deserve it.. I would tell him that he has to respect my friend as well as our friendship.. If he doesn't stop with this words, tell him that U're about to tell your friend about it, and if he continues doing that, definetely U have to tell your friend about it.
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It's sounds like its on of the hardest things to do, but really all you can do is have some one on one time with your friend, and just tell her straight up no games, and no beating around the bush. Either she'll respect you and believe or she'll get a little mad. But as a friend its up to you to inform her about the situation, even if she gets a little mad, in the long run she'll definitely be grateful to you for having her back and telling her about him.
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You DON"T--for real I have been in this situation....Threaten to glue his privates to his stomach in his sleep if he doesn't stop being a prick. If you tell your friend, she might think you are "trying" to start trouble -especially since chances are he will deny it when confronted about it. I would try to put a little distance between myself and the both of them for a while--he will end up screwing up on his own - you will still have your friend--and both of you will have one less D i c khead to deal with.
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supply lots of icecream and tell her the truth
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Realize that when you tell her that you MAY lose both as friends. But if she is a real friend, tell her anyway. You both will feel better later.. I hope!
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without any hesitation
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JUST BE HONEST WITH UR FRIEND!! AN TELL THEM THE TRUTH! AFTER ALL THE TRUTH ALWAYS COMES OUT IN THE END!! THEY MAY BE MAD AT FIRST, BUT IF THEIR A REAL GOOD FRIEND THEN THEY'LL COME AROUND IN THE END!!! PERSONALLY, I'D BE GRATEFUL THAT MY FRIEND TOLD ME INSTEAD OF LETTING ME FIND OUT FROM SOMEONE ELSE!!!. . WISHING U THE BEST OF LUCK!!!
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It's not going to be easy telling your friend something like that because i'm sure that you don't want to hurt her feelings but at the same time if you are indeed a true friend to this person you'll tell her what happened as far as her boyfriend asking you out on dates. he is not the person for her you should deffently tell her.
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