Question

How can I maintain my self-confidence when I'm around the person I'm attracted to?

Answer 1

maintaining confidence has to go beyond certain situations. Under ALL circumstances, she's a human with flaws and beauty and everything that you have. How can you not be comfortable when you think about her humanness?

Answer 2

Just think of her as a friend. Try to maintain that friendship, and soon it will just be a habit.

Answer 3

be yourself

Answer 4

think ahead, think of your responses to different situations, don't turn into a wuss or needy and clingy type of guy..... and show some humor damnit, girls like that... No confidence spells no attraction, its an evolutionary thing going back to our cave man roots.

Answer 5

So many approaches you could take.. . Sometimes the friend talking you into a date or moment is good. It's kind of cute when a guy is bashful.. . Another is to tell her your a little nervous--but there's a fine line in that--because it could scare her away.. . Coming up with a joke is always good--to charm her.. Most girls like humor.

Answer 6

Pretend she is your mother or sister.