If you are in good health and shape overall, well I think liposuction is the best anwer or perhaps a tummy tuck if you can afford it. . . Sometimes, no matter what you do, you just can't get rid of that flab around the belly, especially if it is from having babies. . . There is nothing wrong with the above if you are taking care of yourself and are in good shape.. . But, is it really that bad? Does your hubby or boyfriend think you are pretty and sexy just the way you are? If so perhaps you need to just eccept yourself the way you are too. Nobody is perfect or has a perfect body. Movie stars and models make us think we are not pretty enough or look good in our bodies. . . Those movie stars have makeup artists and have the money to do all sorts of surgacal things to themselves. I just a Dr. Phil show and saw J-Low without makeup and she looks just like anybody around town we would run into. It is the makeup artists who make her look so good.