i feel your pain, and i have fat on my back, too! I found that arobics, or cardio, is the best option for this. these fat deposits are given to us moms for some reason, supposedly they guard against famine so that we can still do the laundry if there is wide spread hunger. after all, who would scrup the toilet? . no, sriously, this is the last place i lose wieght, and the first that i put it on.after all your fat is gone, then the arobics will melt that fat for you.