You answered your question. Why do you try to do what is right? To do right is to "fear God". Do you have a father you love and admire? If you did something against his expressed wishes, you fear his discipline. Why would he punish you? Love. So when someone offers you a joint, you think of your father who loves you. You "fear him". Fear of dissappointing him, and fear of getting punished. But that fear keeps you out of danger, keeps you obeidiant, and will later help you greatly in almost EVERY aspect of your life. Another translation of the word "fear" could be translated "awe".. . BTW-The punishment of hell is reserved for those who want nothing to do with God. God will honor that respect by putting them someplace where NONE of His presence or creation exists. Be very careful what you ask for regarding your eternity.