Honey, probability makes the odds pretty low, but on the literature they gave me to read for my hysterectomy, it sometimes can hurt to have intercourse after your operation. You didn't say how long its been since your operation - maybe you just need to wait a bit more for everything to heal some more. It is major surgery, and all your other internal organs need time to settle into new positions now that your uterus etc has been taken out. . You really do need to go back to your gynocologist and discuss these issues, and if your gyno is no good (mine wasn't for me) don't be afraid to see another gyno. You deserve to know what has happened to your body, and talk about the changes because of the operation - there are lots of things that can help you to cope with the changes to your body & even the pain you are experiencing. The key is being brave enough to talk with doctors about it.. Good luck, and be brave. Don't let them brush you off-ask and insist on answers and help.