Its an unfortunate event, but you cant.. . The State Laws protect thier rights to have the kids. I believe even Federal Law gives them the right to do this too.... . I am not for this, as I think its perverted for a couple who arent man and wife, to raise children, in a stable home. But, the law is the law and we cant do a thing about it because of the silly courts who dont know any better, (at least what a common person, would have more sense, most of the time), and they designate the will of "thier" wills, towards the people and not the other way around... . I wish you well... . Jesse