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What are some reasons why a woman might not orgasm during sex with her male partner?
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i just barely answered this for someone else so i'll tell you the same thing i told them... women only orgasm about half the time while having vaginal sex so don't sweat it if your partner doesn't orgasm all the time. in most cases the clitoris needs to be stimulated to induce an orgasm, but every woman's body is different so this isn't the only "cure". talk to her about it and ask her to help you know what to do if you think the clitoris is the way to go. if that doesn't work, go for the mythical g-spot
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I am not a gynecologist nor a sex doctor. But mind you things in this world happens and we do things because of what our mind tells us or direct us to do. When you're having sex with your boyfriend are you doing it in a situation that precludes you from enjoying it ? In other words do you feel guilty or not? If not, maybe something is wrong with your boyfriend. He may have failed to excite or stimulate you during copulation.Premature ejaculation on the part of your partner maybe is the culprit.Why not do a Little practice or exercise with him. Face each other naked and try to stimulate each other and practice control and release. Always remember this its all in the mind.
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it depends on a lot of things my man.. I will give you a few options!!!. . If she is nervous and she can not relax and enjoy, it is hard to come. Also, if she has a 'new' partner (=you) sex is new and very different compare other boyfriends she had before. You have to get used to each others body. It takes time!. . For-play is very important. give her a nice massage with lotion or oil and avoid her 'particulars'. Just touch her bum, and don't go any further for a while. You can tell wether she wants more and she will get excited and very horny and wet without even touching her 'there' When you finaly touch her she will be so horny by the teasing that coming will be a lot easier...good luck and have fun
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The fault lies either in your boy partner or in your own neural network.
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