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Discuss the reasons why some people might view sex in a negative light.
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sex is for recreation and procreation between man and wife .
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It's natural. My religion doesn't state that it's a sin because we revere the ways of nature, the balance in all things. Also, if you look at it this way, there are many men, and women too, (not all, but an awful lot) who will say that sex outside of marriage is wrong while carrying on a secret affair, or having multiple partners. Men seem to do this more than women, though. It's like they can have sex with anyone they want, but let the woman they're dating with the possible intention to wed have a sexual past! Oh, boy, the outbursts!. . Personally, I think it was all something that men made up so that they could go against the natural order of things, which is to find the best genes possible, with as much variety as possible, to produce your children. They take their part seriously, spreading their seed as much as they can, but let a woman try to have children by more than one man, and there's something wrong with it all of a sudden! Men want their women to only have children by them, while their instincts are also telling them to have as many babies as possible with as many women as they can. Meanwhile, they expect the women not to have the same instincts. It's sad. Patriarchal societies suck.
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Who says sex is bad? God created sex; and like everything else he created, he said it was "Very good!". . What is bad is irresponsible sex, that is, sex outside of marriage, perverted sex, etc.. . BTW, Adam and Eve WERE married. Read again Genesis 2:25:. "And they were both naked, the man and his WIFE; and they were not ashamed." (Genesis 2:25, MKJV). . People often ask "Why" concerning God's commandments for man. They're usually just looking for a way to justify their sins. But God gives the answer to "Why," it's just that people don't want to believe it.. . "You shall walk in all the ways which the LORD your God has commanded you SO THAT YOU MAY LIVE AND THAT GOOD MAY BE TO YOU, and you may make your days longer in the land which you shall possess." (Deuteronomy 5:33). . But if you want to get specific about why extramarrital sex is bad, try visiting a women who has a house full of kids, each with a different father, none of which are around to support them or the mother. Or visit some of those who are dying of a sexually transmitted disease.. . Is the moment of fun and fling worth your life? Or the lives of your children?. . Just read the statistics; and the vast majority of them are in these sad situations because of irresponsible, extramarrital sex.. . And as for salvation:. "Do you not know that the unrighteous shall not inherit the kingdom of God? Do not be deceived; neither fornicators, nor idolaters, nor adulterers, nor abusers, nor homosexuals, nor thieves, nor covetous, nor drunkards, nor revilers, nor extortioners, shall inherit the kingdom of God." (I Corinthians 6:9-10). . But if you want to know what God intended for sex, read a modern version of the Song of Solomon in the Bible.. . "Let your fountain be blessed, and rejoice with the wife of your youth. Like the loving deer and pleasant doe, let her breasts satisfy you at all times, and be ravished always with her love." (Proverbs 5:18-19)
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its not just do it plez and get over it
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it's not.
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Monogamous sex is not bad provided you both honor and respect your Union as man and wife PERMANENTLY, with the sanctity of Matrimony, under the eyes of God.... . In other words, make absolutely sure who you're intending to have premarital sex with beforehand, with the hopeful knowledge that you will be spending the REST OF YOUR LIFE with that SAME PERSON... And that it is not merely a fling or physical lust to satisfy your natural sexual urges. Or, worse, some one-night stand thingie only! That's the diff.
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Who the bloody hell told you like this? This is the mental need of a person like food.for the body.
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it was a story made up to prevent girls becoming unmarried mothers.
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it is dangerous for society and it makes you forget God.. but don't search for the reason if u ask me.if you want God to love you, do what he says and don't ask about the reason.
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It's like this, sex is meant for those who have chosen to become 'one' within marriage. Sex for those out of marriage has become dark and twisted. Unwed individuals view sex as an object while married people view sex as an obligation for procreation. Therefore,"It's for procreation and not recreation!" - it could happen.
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